Flowers for weddings and anniversaries

From the bride’s bouquet to a bunch on the table for a fortieth anniversary, flowers mark every stage of a marriage. Here is how to choose by season, by milestone and by the couple themselves.

Peonies
Peonies – June weddings
White roses
White roses – all year
Hydrangea
Hydrangeas – late summer
White lilies
Lilies – the church

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Wedding flowers through the Irish year

Weddings here happen all year round, and seasonal flowers look best and travel best:

  • Spring: tulips, ranunculus, narcissi and blossom.
  • Early summer: peonies, sweet peas and garden roses, the most popular season for weddings.
  • Late summer: hydrangeas, dahlias and wildflower styles.
  • Winter: white roses, amaryllis, eucalyptus and evergreens, with velvet ribbon.

Strongly scented lilies look magnificent in a church but can be overpowering in a small hotel room, and their pollen stains dresses, so ask the florist to remove the anthers.

Anniversaries by the year

The traditional list gives a material for each anniversary, such as paper for the first and silver for the twenty-fifth. A newer list matches a flower to each year as well. It is a fun guide rather than a rule:

Anniversary flowers (modern list)

YearFlower
1stCarnations
4thHydrangeas
10thDaffodils
12thPeonies
15thRoses
25th (silver)White and silver tones
50th (golden)Yellow roses and gold tones

Silver and golden jubilees

The twenty-fifth and fiftieth are often marked with a family Mass and a meal. Many Catholic couples in Ireland also receive a Papal Blessing, a decorated scroll arranged through a parish or a religious shop. Flowers for the table at the celebration, or delivered to the couple’s home that morning, are a lovely addition from children, grandchildren or neighbours. White and cream with silver ribbon suit a silver jubilee; yellow and gold suit a golden one.

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Personal touches

  • Recreate the wedding bouquet from photos; florists can usually match it closely.
  • One stem per year works for early anniversaries; after ten, choose the flower instead.
  • Their colours: a bouquet in the colours of the wedding day brings back memories.
  • Keep a flower: press a bloom from the wedding bouquet between baking paper in a heavy book.

For romance at any time, read flowers for love; for meanings see flower language, and for timing, how to send flowers. When you are ready, send flowers.

Wedding and anniversary questions

Which flower goes with which wedding anniversary?
There is no official list, but a widely used modern one gives carnations for the first year, hydrangeas for the fourth, daffodils for the tenth, peonies for the twelfth and roses for the fifteenth. Many couples simply choose the flowers from their wedding bouquet.
What flowers suit a golden wedding anniversary?
Yellow and gold flowers: yellow roses, sunflowers, golden chrysanthemums or a mixed bouquet with a touch of gold ribbon. For a fiftieth, something generous for the family celebration is usual.
Can I send flowers to the couple on their wedding day?
You can, but on the day itself they will be at the church and reception. Flowers sent to the couple’s home for their return from honeymoon, or to the hotel by arrangement with the venue, are usually more practical.

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